Last week I gave a presentation to a lovely group of ladies, and I mentioned one simple trick that would help light up their faces and give them a more youthful, vibrant appearance. What is the trick?
It is mentioned in our book: QUINTESSENTIAL STYLE: Cultivate and Communicate Your Signature Look. The trick is: If you haven’t changed your lipstick in a while, try wearing a color that is a shade brighter than the one you’re currently wearing.
Simple, right? No…maybe not. After the presentation there were many ladies who were asking, “What does it mean to go a shade brighter? Does brighter mean deeper? Does brighter mean lighter?”
I thought the word ‘bright’ had a universal connotation. Bright, you know–bright!
I needed to bring in the big guns–so I consulted my co-author, Janna Beatty, on this seemingly simple, yet ironically complex definition.
Janna had the answer to this color conundrum (straight out of the book):
“Clarity is the element in color that describes how bright, dull, or toned down it is. If you mixed brown or gray pigment into a bright color, it would not be as bright. If you wear colors with too little clarity (dull) they can dim you down, while colors with too much clarity (too bright) may overpower you.”
Bright = not dull. Hmmm…still confused? Let’s go to visuals, which are always a good idea.
I used my own lipstick for this experiment.
In the photo on left, I smeared two lines of lipstick onto a sheet of paper.
In the next photo, I added some bronzer to the second line. See how the brown bronzer dulls down the color?
Years ago, I wore a shade similar to the one on the far right–I remember the color was called ‘Dusty Rose.’ I didn’t realize the color was no longer flattering on me until I brightened my shade.
It can be difficult to choose from literally thousands of lip colors. How do you know which one is going to look best on you? Most likely you’ll to have to try several to find the most complementary shade. (Of course, you can always consult a color expert like Janna, to avoid a lot of costly mistakes.)
It’s best to try lipstick directly on your mouth, because the amount of pigment you already have in your lips can affect color.
As we mature our color can fade. To replenish that youthful look, simply add some.
You don’t need a lot. And color that might be considered bright for one person, may not be considered bright for another. But if a color appears dusty or dim, try a shade with more brightness/vibrancy.
One more thing:
When you try on a new lipstick, don’t just look at your mouth. Look at your entire face.
This lip color appears very bright up close. But when you step away, it looks amazing.
We hope this sheds a little light on the issue of brightness. When you put on a lip color that is the correct shade and clarity for you, your entire face will beam. Your eyes will pop, your skin will glow…guaranteed.
And, remember:
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LOVE this article, Sharon. I want to run out right now and shop for a new lipstick . . . or two. I, too, have worn a similar color to the Dusty Rose in your examples, and now I’m ready to amp it up a bit. Especially with Spring around the corner, everything needs to be brightened up a little.
Thanks so much for the lipstick suggestion and the help in figuring this out. I continually go to your book Quintessential Style for tips and tricks!
I have been adding a brighter color lipstick to my favorite” base,” which I now call it, for sometime. But I didn’t know why I did that until I read the write-up on wearing brighter lipsticks. It thrilled me to read it! Hey, I’m doing the right thing!
Yay, Donna!
Judy,
Take a friend with you when you try on the new color. It’s so hard in department stores where the lighting is so dim and the clerks are out to sell, sell, sell. An honest opinion from a trusted friend is always a good idea. (She might even need your opinion on a new lip color.) You might have to go outside the store to see the ‘true color.’
Grab your friend and have some fun!
I am so glad I had Janna do my color analysis. I was wearing a dark maroon color of lipstick thinking I was “too old” to wear a bright color. Boy was I wrong. Janna hooked me up to the color CORAL and my face totally came alive. I no longer look “Dead” as my husband called the old color look! I receive so many compliments and enjoy feeling good about my look.
Lori,
I love it when gals are so honest. Most women would not admit that their husband actually said they “looked dead.” Thank you for sharing this.
Sharon, this was a great blog. I Totally believe that lipstick can change the entire appearance of your face and your personality. I love coral colors and when I wear anything but a bright color I feel drab……..and I don’t won’t to feel drab. Keep the blogs comings.
Hugs.
Beverly,
Janna says, “Never wear a color that is duller than you are!” Such good advice for us all.
Coral fits your bubbly bright personality to a tee!
You are so correct….The right and bright lipstick color is key. I have developed sensitivity to some cosmetics, especially nail polish. BITE brand is “safe” and I love the little tube of “agave lip mask” which provides moisture, shine and color. You and Janna are terrific….Thanks.
Thanks for writing, Linda.
I, too, loved this posting and can testify that a brighter lipstick really makes a difference! At Janna’s Open House yesterday she had me try a lipstick in a pink coral color I never would have thought to try on my own. It instantly made my face light up and, dare I say it, made me feel at least a couple of years younger! The fact that my husband couldn’t tell for certain what was different about me didn’t matter – I felt brighter and younger and that alone added a spring to my step!
Sherry, you are the poster girl for this week’s blog. When you got to Janna’s on Saturday you said you felt tired from hosting a party the night before. But when you applied lipstick that was just a tint brighter than your own, you exclaimed, “I even look less tired!”
Ah yes, the magic of color.
This is a good suggestion for women who have been wearing lipsticks that are not bright enough. It can be a slippery slope if you are already wearing a bright enough lipcolor.
Be careful not to go too bright. If you go too bright, the lipstick will look harsh and if you have thin lips they will look thinner and if you have large lips, you might look like you are all lips. Remember to not go more than a shade or two brighert than the inside of your lower lip.
Consult a Color 1 Associate if you are confused regarding your best lip-color. Nancy Goldblatt, Wardrobe Wizard, Dressing for Comfort, Confidence & Style.
Well said, Nancy Goldblatt.
Thanks for writing.